Eye contact is important. Don’t be looking up at the sky counting stars while she is telling you an emotional story. Do not play games on your cell phone or IPod while she is talking and please never, ever text while she is talking. That is rude and only says to her that you are not interested in what she is saying and would much rather talk to whoever you are texting. Look straight into her eyes and listen to the words she says . make comments every now and then so she knows you are listening and ofcourse do not look a other females. Lacey Chabert could be walking by, but you stay focused on the girl you are with. Many women can not seem to distinguish the difference between a glance, stare and a look, therefore do not even put yourself in the position to debate that with her. One thing to be careful is not to stare at her. Some girls may think you are creepy if you look at her for 3 hours straight! If you must look elsewhere look down, not at her body, but look at your hands or your shoes. Whatever you do, make sure you have eye contact through most of the conversation.